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Ignoring Red Flags Is Costly

May 20, 2013

I met him at the Capitol Grille; tall, handsome, almost divorced and 14 years younger than me.  I refer to him as an “aholic”, as I learned in the four months we dated that he was addicted to more than alcohol.  He was also in a job transition…trying to start a new business.  I was […]

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A Man’s Tale: Bad Behavior Of Women At Bars

May 16, 2013

It was a cold October afternoon, and I was sitting at the bar in Stephanie’s on Newbury Street (a top Boston restaurant) waiting for my girlfriend to arrive.  A pretty woman to my right and a couple to my left were deeply engaged in conversation.  I had arrived from France just weeks before and was […]

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Fly Me To The Moon (or Marseille) Please!!

May 11, 2013

I was on my way to the first romantic vacation of my life (and to Paris).   How is that possible at this age?  Suffice it to say that the men in my past were intellectual men with low libidos. The man I was flying across the ocean for has both ample intellect and libido.  […]

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The Big Girl Talk: Condoms and Battery-Operated Devices

May 7, 2013

I’m always amazed when I hear about people, over 50, who do not think using a condom matters at this age because, of course, your partner would NEVER be having sex with another person while dating you.  Or, hasn’t had sex in a few years.  Of course you have NO idea how many women he […]

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How Do You Feel About Passion?

May 6, 2013

I didn’t have any specific plans for Friday night, and I got a text from my friend, Margaret, who was meeting another friend for drinks at an Italian restaurant in town.  I quickly responded “I’m there.” I was the last to arrive.  Everyone was either two glasses of wine or two espresso martinis ahead of […]

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Online Date – Do You Mind If I Take Off My Pantyhose?

May 3, 2013

Jarad had been having coffee dates with several women on Match.com.  He met them in local Starbucks and, on occasion, for a quick drink at a nice restaurant.  But, Susan lived two states away and seemed interesting enough to meet halfway.  They shared a common bond in their passion for cycling.  She cycled 30-40 miles per […]

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Get Yourself Some Gay Guy Friends!!

April 29, 2013

Let’s be honest with ourselves.  Gay men have the absolute best taste in clothing, furniture, restaurants…you name it.  I believe it’s something they were just born with.  When you become friends with gay men you also become instantly Fabulous, Fierce, Fashionable and Fun.  At least that is how you will feel about yourself as long […]

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Online Date: Please Don’t Ask Her If She’s Seen The Hudson River?

April 26, 2013

I’ll be honest.  I have NEVER had an online date.  Nope…no Match.Com, E-harmony, Swinging Singles (I made that up), Meetups  for people looking for sex (I didn’t make that up).  Why, you may ask?  It’s a lot of work!   Things like… a guy put law enforcement on his profile and his job is mall […]

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April 24, 2013

  “Don’t change so people will like you, Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.”

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Good Men Are Out There Too!

April 24, 2013

Now that I got your attention. I want you to understand that there are many wonderful men who are searching for that special person to share their life with.  You just have to know what you are looking for. I was browsing through Oprah’s site and this heading jumped right out at me. “Good Character […]

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