I’m always amazed when I hear about people, over 50, who do not think using a condom matters at this age because, of course, your partner would NEVER be having sex with another person while dating you. Or, hasn’t had sex in a few years. Of course you have NO idea how many women he had before that. And, that HE has no idea that some of the women he slept with had herpes or some other venereal disease.
Trust me…there are women and men out there who have sexually transmitted diseases and are not confessing. Just think how you might feel if someone you had intense chemistry with said, “Oh, before we have sex, I just want you to know that I have a herpes. Now that would be a real mood-breaker.
My point is, “Ladies…do NOT have unprotected sex at ANY time!” I want you to go to the nearest CVS (come on there’s one on every corner) and buy some condoms. Don’t be embarrassed about purchasing them. It’s far more embarrassing picking up the prescription you will be needing if you are infected. Or worse….I don’t even want to go there!
So, my advice is…After you go to the CVS store and buy your supply of condoms, you should go directly to an Amazing store, or online, and purchase a battery-operated device (vibrator). They come in all shapes and sizes.
It is far safer to take care of business at home before you go out to meet guys or go out on a date. I believe we should not go food shopping when hungry and out to bars when horny. Both could have adverse consequences.
Protect yourself and enjoy the woman you were meant to be. Remember to laugh a lot too!!
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Dee:
Right on target as usual. May I also humbly add that lack of touch, or “touch hunger” may cloud one’s emotions and make you feel extra needy. That extra neediness may lead you into unhealthy sexual encounters when you are just hungering for nurturing touch.
So reach out and get those touch needs filled! Be a hugger! Hug your friends, your mom, even your cranky neighbors if they will accept it – they will certainly benefit from it. And consider getting a professional (ethical and non-sexual) massage that will leave you feeling lovable, centered and joyous in your beautiful self. Then go out and conquer the world.
Fondly,
Nancy
Dee,
I agree with everything you said especially the battey operated devices. You can never have too many. In fact, I have names for mine – pink lady, purple amethyst, etc. Did you know ladies night is Tuesday night at Amazing your one store shopping for pleasure. So girls get your devices and get your discount at the same time.
So many regretful decisions could be avoided if people read this post! Love it!